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by studentteacher83 @ Friday, 10. Oct, 2008 - 19:07:40

I try to find something to like in all my pupils but some of them make it very difficult. There's a girl in my year eleven class who I just cannot get along with.

She had her phone out in today's lesson (not a rarity unfortunately) and when I asked her to hand it over she was argumentative. She'd never get away with impersonating Catherine Tate because she always looks extremely bovvered. She was adament that it was really important to send this particular text. I had to get a little back-up courtesy of an older teacher. This other teacher took her out of my lesson to sort it out and justice was served with her phone (and also her belt) sent up to the Head's secretary's office.

And what was so important that she had to send the text? She'd slept with her friend's boyfriend (at twenty years old he's closer to my age than hers) and was trying to find out if they were still friends. I'm guessing not. What I find utterly baffling is that this guy would want to sleep with her anyway. He has a girlfriend and he's prepared to blow it for someone who is unattractive, unlikeable in the extreme and let's not forget underage.

Equally baffling is why someone would kick up a fuss over having their phone confiscated with parents' evening less than a week away. It's just not good sense.


 
 

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kendersrulekendersrule pro
2008-10-10 @ 19:42

year eleven age is 16ish yes?

studentteacher83studentteacher83 [Member]
2008-10-12 @ 09:42

Yes, not an easy age to be or to teach!

wtfmanwtfman [Member]
2008-10-10 @ 21:17

sad but true signs of the age we live in today - sex before loyalty, sex before education, sex with anybody so long as it has a pulse (or maybe not in some cases), sex before lunch if you're lucky - lol

studentteacher83studentteacher83 [Member]
2008-10-12 @ 09:43

lol, they'll be having sex before sex next, god knows how that'll work.

KK [Visitor]

2008-10-11 @ 22:25

Why is it that British teachers seem to provoke confrontations over every little issue - seems to me that the confrontational nature of British education is at the heart of the problems in UK education. Kids will just not take this type of crap anymore.
I've seen more confrontations in a day in UK schools that I witnessed in a year in Holland.

studentteacher83studentteacher83 [Member]
2008-10-12 @ 09:53

We try and make it as easy as possible for them. We tell them that phones aren't allowed out in lessons, we even put up the rules in classrooms on bright yellow paper, we try and be as consistent as we possibly can, it's not like we as teachers stand in lessons texting people so why should they? For crying out loud, it was ten minutes before the end of the lesson and we allow them to use phones in corridors.

What more can we do to make it easier for them? It's not like we just make up rules on the spot. If they're still silly enough to get caught then I'm afraid it's just tough luck.

oldandrewoldandrew [Member]
2008-10-12 @ 05:20

How is this a little issue?

How much learning do you think would get done in a class where kids can sit playing with their phones?

oldandrewoldandrew [Member]
2008-10-12 @ 06:01

Oh, and as for British teachers being more confrontational than elsewhere...

Try here. The school stuff is about 20 minutes in.

james [Visitor]
http://www.jamesblog.co.uk
2008-10-12 @ 09:03

KK (visitor)

I don't think it's the individual teachers fault - more our overall education system.

I certainly agree with the rule about no phones in class; that's just basic manners isn't it?

However, I do have a wider problem with our system in that, often, I feel the teacher/student relationship isn't grown up enough. Basically we treat them like little kids so they act like them. I'd like to see us move towards treating 14-15 year olds like the young adults they are (or should be). Keeping them in school even longer now just reinforces the fact we don't want our young people to grow up - indeed many people in the UK are still rattling around in full time lessons in their mid-20s over here.

studentteacher83studentteacher83 [Member]
2008-10-12 @ 09:58

I think you're absolutely spot on about treating them more like young adults. We can't expect them to behave maturely if we treat them like babies. I do try to treat my year tens and elevens with that sort of attitude.

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